मुल्य शिक्षण

व्यक्तीचा सर्वांगीण विकास करणे हे शिक्षणाचे प्रमुख उद्दीष्ट असते; शिक्षण त्याला / तिला एक चांगले मानव बनविते. अलिकडच्या काळात साक्षरतेच्या टक्केवारीत जरी वाढ झाली असली तरी विचार करणे शिकवण्याऐवजी केवळ वाचन-लेखन करण्यात सक्षम बनवण्यावर लक्ष केंद्रित केले जात आहे. आजच्या शिक्षणामध्ये मुल्य शिक्षणाचा सारांश खूप कमी प्रमाणात आढळतो आणि ह्याचा प्रत्यय समाजातील नैतिक मूल्यांच्या ह्वासावरून लक्षात येतो.

वाढलेले शहरीकरण आणि आधुनिकीकरणामुळे लोकांची नैतिक मूल्ये दिवसेंदिवस कमी होत आहेत. वाढलेली स्पर्धा आपल्याला समृद्ध आणि आनंदी होण्यापेक्षा कोणत्याही किंमतीत श्रीमंत होण्यास प्रवृत्त करत आहे. विश्वास, अखंडता, प्रेम आणि बंधुत्व ह्या सर्व भावना काळानुसार लुप्त होत चालल्या आहेत. हे नैतिक मूल्येच आहेत जे आपल्याला शाळेत, कॉलेज, आणि जीवनात चांगले मित्र बनविण्यास शिकवतात परंतु आज मुलांना कोणावरही विश्वास ठेवू नका आणि मित्र कमी बनवायला शिकवले जाते.

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प्रत्यक्षात नैतिक शिक्षणाचा अर्थ काय ते पाहूया; ही एक गोष्ट आहे जी आपल्याला मानवी मूल्ये शिकवते, ती नैतिकतेने कसे विचार करावा आणि काय योग्य आहे आणि काय अयोग्य आहे हे शिकवते. नैतिक शिक्षण जीवनात योग्य मार्ग निवडण्यास मदत करते. यात सत्यनिष्ठा, प्रामाणिकपणा, प्रेम, आदरातिथ्य, सहिष्णुता, प्रेम, दयाळूपणा आणि सहानुभूती अशी काही मूलभूत तत्त्वे आहेत. नैतिक शिक्षण एखाद्याला परिपूर्ण करते.

मुले आपल्या समाज आणि राष्ट्राच्या भविष्याचा पाया असतात. कोणताही देश यशस्वी होण्यासाठी त्याचे नागरिक नैतिकदृष्ट्या सुसज्ज असणे महत्वाचे आहे. घर, शाळा आणि महाविद्यालयात शिक्षक, मार्गदर्शक, आणि पालक यांच्याद्वारे नैतिक शिक्षण लहानपणापासूनच दिले जाऊ शकते. मुलांसमोर योग्य विचार आणि आचरण करून मुलांना नैतिकता शिकवणे ही प्रत्येकाची जबाबदारी आहे. मुल्य शिक्षण सर्वांसाठी एक महत्वाचे आहे आणि हे कधीही आत्मसात केले जाऊ शकते.

मुल्य शिक्षणाचे बरेच फायदे आहेत, जसेः

  • त्यातून शिस्तीची भावना विकसित होते;
  • चांगल्या सवयी आणि आचरण विकसित होतात जे आयुष्यात यशस्वी होण्यासाठी महत्त्वपूर्ण भूमिका बजावतात;
  • लोकांचा आदर करण्यास शिकवते;
  • एखाद्या व्यक्तीमध्ये नैतिक मूल्ये विकसित होतात;
  • वाईट सवयींवर नियंत्रण ठेवण्यास मदत करते;
  • स्वतःची सकारात्मक विचारसरणी विकसित करण्यास मदत करते;
  • सकारात्मक दृष्टीकोन विकसित करण्यास मदत करते;
  • व्यक्तिमत्त्व विकसित करण्यास मदत करते;
  • मानवी जीवनाची मूल्ये समजण्यास मदत करते;
  • स्वच्छतेचे आणि वेळेचे गुणधर्म शिकण्यास मदत करते;
  • भावनिक बुद्धिमत्ता विकसित करण्यास मदत करते;
  • एक चांगला माणूस होण्यासाठी मदत करते.

एखाद्याच्या आयुष्यात आणि यशामध्ये मुल्य शिक्षणाचे बरेच फायदे पाहता, मूल्य शिक्षणाचा प्रसार करण्यासाठी प्रत्येक पालक, शिक्षक, शाळा, महाविद्यालय, शैक्षणिक आणि व्यावसायिक संस्थेवर मोठी जबाबदारी आहे.

तर चला मित्रांनो, आपला समाज, आपला देश आणि आपले जग नैतिकदृष्ट्या विकसित करण्यासाठी एकत्र येऊया…✍ 

Moral Education

Any education aims to make development in any individual, making him/her a better human being. 

Though literacy rate and percentage have risen during recent times, the only focus is on making individual capable of reading and writing, rather than thinking positively. 

Today’s education lacks the gist of moral education in it, leading to the degeneration of moral values in society. 

With rapid urbanization and modernization, the moral values of people are degrading day by day. Unhealthy competition is making us strive more for money, success at any cost rather than being prosperous and happy.

Trust, integrity, love, brotherhood, and all other positive feelings are fading away with time. It is the moral values that teach us to share and make new friends at school, college, and life but today, children are taught not to trust anyone and make less of friends.

Now let’s see what moral education means; it is something that teaches you human values; it teaches you how to think morally and what is right and what is wrong. 

  • Moral education means an ethical education that helps choose the right path in life. It comprises some basic principles such as truthfulness, honesty, charity, hospitality, tolerance, love, kindness, and sympathy. 
  • Moral education makes one perfect.

Children are the foundation of our society and the future of our nation. For any country, its citizens must be morally equipped. 

Moral education can be rendered from childhood at home, school, and college, by tutors, mentors, elders, and parents. It is our responsibility to teach morals to kids by practicing what is right in front of the kids. 

It is an education for all at each stage of life.

Moral education has many advantages, such as:

  • It develops a sense of discipline;
  • It develops habits and manners;
  • It teaches to respect people;
  • It develops moral values in an individual;
  • It helps to have control over bad habits;
  • It helps us in positive thinking;
  • It helps to develop personality;
  • It helps to develop interpersonal skills;
  • It helps to understand the values of life;
  • It helps to learn the virtue of cleanliness and punctuality;
  • It helps to develop emotional intelligence;
  • It helps to be a good human being.

Looking at so many benefits of moral education in one’s life and success, it is the responsibility of every parent, teacher, school, college, educational professional, and institute to impart it to every student.

So friends, let’s come together to develop ourselves, our society, our country, and our world morally. ✍

आयुष्य हे !!!

खरेच आयुष्य किती स्वप्नवत असते ।
हा हा म्हणता बालपण सरले ।
शाळा संपली, कॉलेज ही संपले।
राहिल्या नुसत्या आठवणी।

ते रुसवे ते फुगवे ।
ते राग ते हसणे ।
कोणाशी तरी खूप बोलणे व कोणाशी तरी एक शब्द ही न बोलणे ।
आता राहिल्या फक्त आठवणी।

ते आनंदाचे क्षण काही दुःखाचे ।
काही क्षण कधीच संपू नये असे वाटणे, तर काही लवकर निघून जावेत असे होणे ।
कधी कधी पोट दुःखे पर्यंत हसणे तर कधी किती रडू असे होणे ।
आता राहिल्या नुसत्या आठवणी ।

आलेले यश साजरे करणे ।
अपयश ही आपलेसे करणे ।
मोठया मोठया इच्छा उराशी बाळगणे ।
त्या पूर्ण करण्यासाठी खटपट करणे।
आता राहिल्या फक्त आठवणी।

किती काही करायचे होते।
खूप काही केले ही, तरी खूप काही करायचे राहून गेले।
वाटते कधी कधी खूप वर्ष जगलो आपण , पण खरे जीवन जगणेच राहून गेले।
आयुष्याच्या संध्येला प्रत्येकाला नक्कीच असे वाटून जाते।
खरेच आयुष्य किती स्वप्नवत असते ।

Counselling

Our world is changing at a faster rate now, and sometimes we find it difficult to cope with the changes. We try our best to find out the solutions to our problems; however, it seems more difficult. We even discuss it with someone from our family or friend circle, and we get a temporary relief as if we do get from pain when we have painkillers.

Still, we somehow find it hard to get a proper analysis of the situation and to take steps to handle it effectively.

You eagerly look for someone to help you with your issues. 

Some of your friends and relatives may suggest you go for Counselling but, you deny saying, “I’m not sure I need Counselling, but……

To help you, here are some potential reasons when one can opt to go for Counselling.

  1. If you are feeling overwhelmed in any area of your life;
  2. If you think that things are becoming too difficult to manage;`
  3. If you are becoming moody and agitated;
  4. When you experience unwanted changes in your life. You often find that change can overwhelm or challenge you;
  5. You are in a strained relationship;
  6. When sleep is difficult, it may be a warning sign;
  7. When you frequently get ill or feel unknown fatigue or tiredness;
  8. When feeling lost, alone, or isolated;
  9. Self-Harm thoughts.

With Counselling, you have the opportunity to open up about your thoughts, feelings, and circumstances in a confidential, non-judgmental setting. 

  • It discusses the client’s emotional issues and works with them to design the best outcome;
  • It assists you to focus on the reason why you feel this way; then finding a solution to resolve these unwanted behaviors.

A Counsellor will listen to what you are saying and to what you are not saying. 

  • She/he helps you to express what you find difficult or impossible to put into words. 
  • She/he helps you to reframe some of your issues, relieving some of your burdens.

When you get support to understand the reason, it can considerably lighten the heavy feeling you carry. 

  • A Counsellor will accept you exactly as you are, whatever you think of yourselves or what you have done. 
  • A Counsellor will help you to see yourselves and others with empathy, thus enhancing your understanding.
  • A Counsellor can help alleviate the pressure you feel and provide solutions on ways to communicate more effectively to dissolve the conflict in your relationships, to gain a new perspective, and take proactive steps to reconnect with others.

So many reasons why having a session or two with a Counsellor can help you improve your thoughts, benefit you in your daily life, and support you in any transition or problem. Going to a Counselling session can be the healthiest thing that individuals can do for themselves. There is nothing wrong with asking for assistance and reaching for help.

Contact a Counsellor today and alleviate the burden and weight you continue to carry around, thus enhancing your abilities to lead a happy and prosperous life.

ABLES Counselling

Smile for your success !!!

It was a pleasant morning. I was getting ready for the lecture for students of the renowned institute. The topics for the session were scrolling in my mind.

I was about to leave, thought to have a last glance at the mirror. Everything was fine, my dressing, my posture, absolutely ready for the session

My mirror image: Hey! you are missing something, Amol.

I had a close look at myself, my clothes, my ID card…

My mirror image: Amol, something is missing.

I was then worried about what was that; I was missing. I had a close look again.

Oh!!! I realized It was my smile !!!

I excused my mirror image and did some analysis.

It was the first session at that institute so, I was a bit stressed about the outcome of my session, which cost me my smile. I used my secret techniques; my smile was back on my face.

Then, again came to the mirror for approval.

My mirror image gave me a thumbs-ups: Complete man.

The smile changed my personality so positively; I started feeling confident and full of energy.

I was ready for my session on Personality and Professionality Development (PPD).

Like everyone’s, my smile too was contagious; it spread a wave of happiness to everyone in the session; needless to say, that session was a great success!!!

Smile

There was a smile on everyone’s face; it enhanced their abilities with more opportunities for success…✍️

Success Coach